Questions and Objections

Not all questions regarding the priesthood are addressed on this page.

Celibacy, Sexuality, and the Priesthood

Often the greatest challenge or fear that men face in the prospect of the priesthood is the requirement of celibacy. It can be difficult at first to see the beauty, joy, and gift the celibate life is. Today more than ever, there is a profound need for brave men to willingly live in the freedom and simplicity of the perpetual celibate state as it is a reflection of the eternal love, joy, and relationship that will be shared with God in heaven. Celibacy is a big "yes!" instead of a burdensome "no!" The promise of celibate chastity means that a person promises not to get married or have sexual relations. This means that you say "no" to marriage in order to say a greater "yes" to Christ and his Church. Instead of giving yourself to one individual, you are able to be a shepherd for the whole family of the Church. Also, celibacy allows a priest to have one foot in heaven and one on earth as he surpasses earthly marriage to partake immediately in a perfect heavenly union with God.

Happiness and the Priesthood

Some men have a hard time seeing happiness and fulfillment in the Vocation of Priesthood. They say “priesthood is boring” or “priesthood is lonely." Some claim that priests aren’t free and because of this they aren’t happy. This is simply not true.

Of course, you may have many more questions, curiosities, and concerns.

Reach out, without fear, and we will help you.